Many people struggle with a lack of desire. There can be many reasons why you are not interested in sex, including being asexual as your sexual orientation. There is nothing wrong at all with not being interested in sex. It only becomes a problem when you perceive it to be. This can be
In surveys examining peoples’ sexual fantasies threesomes tend to be very popular. However, more people fantasise about threesomes that those who actually have them. For example a Danish study showed that 30% of people had fantasised about a threesome in the last year,
The G-spot has been named after a gynaecologist called Ernest Gräfenberg. Gräfenberg wrote an article published in the International Journal of Sexology in 1950. The title was “The Role of the Urethra in Female Orgasm”. Grafenberg suggested in this article that the anterior wall of the vagina, along the urethra,
The G-spot, squirting, and female ejaculation are sources of much debate and interest. You can hardly enter a sex shop without noticing G-spot sex toys, talk about orgasms without hearing about that elusive G-spot, or watch porn without fountains of squirting. Yet, the science is divided
Some couples fight more, others less, but most of us do have arguments once in a while. There is nothing wrong with that as long as we can resolve the matter that caused the fight and put it behind us. However, some couples find themselves in escalating conflicts, which seem to reoccur with increased frequency.
Infidelity is a loaded topic, everyone has an opinion on it. The majority of people have also been affected by it in some way, and statistics repeatedly show that a large percentage of people have been unfaithful at some point in their lives. The level of acceptance vary in different countries and cultures but when asked,
Have you ever felt misunderstood by your partner? Sometimes it can feel like are speaking to a brick wall and like you speak completely different languages. “You never listen to me”, “You never tell me you love me!”, “I tell you all the time, you just don’t get it!”, “You don’t understand me!”
We’ve come down three sets of stairs to the basement of a building a few kilometres outside the centre of Copenhagen. If it wasn’t for a small paper sign placed half way down you wouldn’t know what’s here. Once though the door industrial meets Japanese in the airy and welcoming interior.
Talking about sex can be difficult. Some people do it without inhibitions and for others it seems impossible. For me personally it is a continuous journey of learning and self-development. Now I think I am OK at it but I used to find it difficult, especially during sex. I have learnt
Have you heard of candaulism? Chances are you haven’t but you will know what it is when you read about it. It is related to exhibitionism which most people are familiar with. In this article I will briefly outline the difference between the two and then tackle some questions I have received.
Many women are looking for natural contraception methods as they suffer side effects from hormonal options, particularly the contraceptive pill. I got pretty disappointed when I recently watched a documentary about the pill on BBC*. At first it seemed objective, but in the end
There is a common situation which can occur in which one person in a relationship is interested in sex and the other is not. Sexless relationships are extremely common and many go years without sexual intimacy. For one reason or another sex fades away until it is no longer happening at all.
I think infidelity is a fascinating topic because it has existed for as long as the construct of monogamous marriage. Most of us have been affected by it it some way. For example, maybe a partner had an affair, maybe you did? Maybe you were the one having a relationship with
Somebody contacted me about a case of sudden body dysmorphia. Body dysmorphia is when you worry about flaws in your appearance that are often not something that others would think of or even notice. This was from a woman who in general was very confident when having sex,