Live authentically & transform your life!

So many people feel stuck in unfulfilling relationships and mediocre sex lives, or wondering how to express their authentic selves or go after their desires. It doesn't have to be that way. Start creating the life you deserve today!

stay in the know

Join the mail list for tips & education

pleasure tips
in your inbox

What I Offer

Pleasure Coaching for Women

Are you lacking desire for sex or not having the sex you want? Maybe you never did? Maybe you don't even know what you want. I can help you discover what turns you on, how to go after what you want, have more pleasure, and experience better orgasms.

Pleasure Coaching for Men

Cultural conditioning affect sexual expression in many ways. If you are a heterosexual man, maybe you feel pressure to perform in sex, or have formed beliefs about what women want that are untrue. Learn how female desire works, and rewrite your scripts for better sex.

Non-traditional Relationships

Whether you are currently single or in a relationship, perhaps you are curious about non-monogamous relationship styles. I can help guide you to understand your options, assess your readiness, get started safely, and navigate potential obstacles.

Permission to be Your Authentic Self

I offer an inclusive, safe and judgement free space, where you can be your authentic self. No matter your gender, your sexual orientation or expression, I welcome you with an open mind. I'm Kink/BDSM knowledgeable and LGBTQIA+ affirmative.


Elisabet Barnes portrait

Elisabet Barnes is a coach, as well as a certified sexologist and relationship therapist. She is currently undertaking a PhD in Clinical Sexology at Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.  

Elisabet loves helping people grow in confidence and create happier, healthier and more fulfilling lives. Combining her own life experience with professional, evidence based knowledge, she offers a confidential, open-minded and judgement-free space. 

Elisabet likes to take a holistic approach to her client's lives. Ultimately all parts of us are connected.

Read the Articles

What Clients Say

I had been to several therapists before I started seeing you. I didn't progress near as much with any of them as I have done with you in just a few sessions!

Female, 30

You have meant so much to us on this journey to open up our relationship. I don't know what we would have done without you. Thank you.

 Couple, mid-40's 

My greatest progress has come from the safe space you create for me where I can be my authentic self without judgement. I feel so much lighter.

Male, 48

Phew, it was really difficult and embarrassing to open up about my fetish. I am so glad that you were such an amazing listener! It felt like such a relief to have permission to open up. Thanks for being here.

Male, 47

If it wasn't for your knowledge and understanding and being a great therapist and listening so intently I wouldn't have been pointed in the right direction. Everything is better. I feel in control of everything and it's a wonderful feeling.

Female, 33

This was a great session. I feel like we made insightful discoveries about our dynamic and ourselves. We made so much more progress than we did with the other couples therapist we saw. 

Couple, mid-30's

Book a consultation

All sessions are via zoom, for your convenience.

A consultation is a safe & confidential space where you can share what is on your mind and receive guidance to help you reach your desired outcomes.