Many people struggle with a lack of desire. There can be many reasons why you are not interested in sex, including being asexual as your sexual orientation. There is nothing wrong at all with not being interested in sex. It only becomes a problem when you perceive it to be. This can be
I previously wrote about what consensual (or ethical) non-monogamy (CNM) is, as well as why some people practise it. But what are actually the challenges and benefits of ethical non-monogamy such as open relationships, swinging, polyamory and other forms? In this article I will share insights
Consensual non-monogamy, (CNM), also called ethical non-monogamy (ENM), is a topic which is coming gradually more into the light. It is something which I feel we need to talk more about in society. Why? Because we need to make it a legitimate and accepted alternative
The G-spot has been named after a gynaecologist called Ernest Gräfenberg. Gräfenberg wrote an article published in the International Journal of Sexology in 1950. The title was “The Role of the Urethra in Female Orgasm”. Grafenberg suggested in this article that the anterior wall of the vagina, along the urethra,
To round off the year I have crowned my top 5 five sex toys of 2020. There are some well known favourites and a newcomer (well to you not me, hehe) is in there. I hope you have drawn some inspiration from the episodes I created this year and I look forward to bringing some new ones to you in the new year.
Some couples fight more, others less, but most of us do have arguments once in a while. There is nothing wrong with that as long as we can resolve the matter that caused the fight and put it behind us. However, some couples find themselves in escalating conflicts, which seem to reoccur with increased frequency.
I this episode of Toy Tuesday I take you on a quick tour of four glass dildos. An old favourite is in there and some other options that might spark your curiosity. The more I use glass toys, the more I like glass for this purpose. It is so smooth and frankly very difficult to compare to silicone
Welcome back to Toy Tuesday! This week’s toy, the FUN FACTORY BIG BOSS is a silicone vibrator of larger dimensions that breathes quality. I love Fun Factory and I bought this particular vibrator in Munich in their store there. It was like entering a sweet store. Fun Factory make their toys really visually appealing
Infidelity is a loaded topic, everyone has an opinion on it. The majority of people have also been affected by it in some way, and statistics repeatedly show that a large percentage of people have been unfaithful at some point in their lives. The level of acceptance vary in different countries and cultures but when asked,
Welcome back and apologies for the impromptu break! This week, instead of reviewing a sex toy, I wanted to talk about the Orgasm Gap. It’s actually somewhat relevant to sex toy use, because sex toys can aid women to orgasm both during masturbation and with a partner.
This week’s Toy Tuesday brings you something luxurious and rather spectacular. It’s the njoy Eleven, a chunky stainless steel dildo which dwarfs most similar alternatives on the market. Is this good or bad and does size matter? Well, size does matter and it can actually become too big.
Welcome back to Toy Tuesday! In this episode I do a clit stimulator comparison where I look at some popular air wave sex toys. The air stimulators for the clitoris are my favourite and most used type of sex toys. I think that at least one of these should be a staple in any clitoris owners toy box.
This week’s Toy Tuesday is about butt plugs! Anal play is becoming increasingly popular. If you go into any mainstream sex shop these days you will find a big selection of various toys for anal play. Because butt plugs come in many different shapes and sizes and don’t insert very deep,
Have you ever felt misunderstood by your partner? Sometimes it can feel like are speaking to a brick wall and like you speak completely different languages. “You never listen to me”, “You never tell me you love me!”, “I tell you all the time, you just don’t get it!”, “You don’t understand me!”
We’ve come down three sets of stairs to the basement of a building a few kilometres outside the centre of Copenhagen. If it wasn’t for a small paper sign placed half way down you wouldn’t know what’s here. Once though the door industrial meets Japanese in the airy and welcoming interior.
In this week’s Toy Tuesday I talk about the We-Vibe Melt. The We-Vibe Melt is an air-pressure clitoris stimulator. I personally prefer these over vibrators because I find them more powerful and more “intriguing”. I get more powerful orgasms with them typically than with vibrators but it depends a bit.
In this week’s Toy Tuesday I talk about the Nomi Tang Tease G-spot Vibrator. Nomi Tang sent it to me so I would like to disclose that upfront, but my review is objective. If you want to learn the Swedish word for pussy and hear about my screaming orgasm this is the episode to watch 🤣.
In this week’s episode of Toy Tuesday I have a clitoris vibrator from Nomi Tang called Better Than Chocolate Classic! Nomi Tang kindly sent it to me so that’s a fair disclosure to make, but my review is objective nevertheless! Did I like it better than chocolate? Check the video and find out. 😊
Talking about sex can be difficult. Some people do it without inhibitions and for others it seems impossible. For me personally it is a continuous journey of learning and self-development. Now I think I am OK at it but I used to find it difficult, especially during sex. I have learnt
Intimacy is about feeling safe and comfortable. Intimacy doesn’t have to have anything to do with sex. Relationships can be intimate without being sexual. Also, you can have sex without intimacy, but sex with intimacy most people would probably argue is more satisfying…
Welcome back to Toy Tuesday! Episode 7 brings you a versatile and aesthetically pleasing glass wand from Fifty Shades of Grey which you can even keep on display on a shelf if you are so inclined 😉 Another great benefit of it is that it is surprisingly cheap for what you you get.