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Can a neckless also actually be a functional sโ‚ฌx Can a neckless also actually be a functional sโ‚ฌx toy..? ๐Ÿค” You might recall my husband gave me this pendant for my birthday ๐Ÿฅฐ In this episode of Toy Tuesday I tell you what I think about the Crave Vesper vibrator now I have tested it a bit ๐Ÿ˜œ! Watch on YouTube via link in my bio ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ“บ . . . . . #crave #vibrator #jewellery #pleasure #femalepleasure #nytelse #sexologist #sexolog
๐Ÿ‘‰ New blog via link in bio! ๐Ÿ”— Researchers a ๐Ÿ‘‰ New blog via link in bio! ๐Ÿ”— Researchers and laypeople alike typically believe that monogamous relationships are the most optimal. For example it is common to believe that jealousy must be a much bigger problem when you can date or have relationships with more than one person. Like many beliefs surrounding consensual non-monogamy (CNM) this is not true. Typically these and similar beliefs have their roots in religion/culture and lack scientific evidence. This means that people who live in CNM relationships are often stigmatised by society. In a 2017 study researchers compared monogamous and ethically non-monogamous relationships and found that those who were practising CNM actually reported less jealousy and more trust than monogamous couples. If you are curious about this, and to learn more about 8 challenges and benefits that this lifestyle can present, hit link in bio for my latest blog! Youโ€™ll also find a link to the source research there. ๐ŸŒธ What are your thoughts on jealousy and trust in relationships? . . . . . #relationships #couples #poly #polyamory #swingers #openrelationship #nonmonogamy #monogamy #jealousy #trust #parterapi #relasjoner
โ€œHave you ever noticed that if you smile at peop โ€œHave you ever noticed that if you smile at people, they will usually smile back? Try it.โ€ Many people who come in couples therapy want to change something about their partner: โ€œIf only they stopped doing that, started doing this, or were more like that, things would be betterโ€. What we easily forget is that there is more than one person in a relationship. How you act and what you say affects your partner. We mirror each other.๐Ÿชž Therefore your partner probably wonโ€™t change unless you also are prepared to look inside yourself and see what you can say or do differently. Maybe one person alone is not to blame for things like a toxic communication pattern, recurring conflict, stagnation, or lack of intimacy. If the responsibility is shared you can work on the relationship together ๐ŸŒธ Give me a smile if you agree ๐Ÿ˜Š . . . . . #smile #smilemore #relationshipgoals #ittakestwo #couplestherapy #parterapi #mirror #smileback #sexologist
Battle of the Bullets is out! Head over to YouTube Battle of the Bullets is out! Head over to YouTube via link in my bio to find out how these compare! ๐Ÿ‘‰ What are the similarities vs differences? ๐Ÿ‘‰ Which one is the most quiet? ๐Ÿ‘‰ What are the vibrations like? ๐Ÿ‘‰ Which one gives the best orgasm??? ๐Ÿ‘‰ Should you get one? Watch now via link in bio ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ“บ . . . . . #toytuesday #vibrators #bullet #bulletvibrator #femalepleasure #pleasure #nytelse #masturbationmay #sexologist #sexolog
In case you missed it hereโ€™s a friendly reminder In case you missed it hereโ€™s a friendly reminder that itโ€™s Masturbation May along with some encouragement! ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ‘‰ Self pleasure is a totally normal part of a healthy sexuality, whether you are single or in a relationship ๐Ÿ‘‰ It has several health benefits, for example itโ€™s relaxing ๐Ÿ‘‰ It can improve partner sex because when you know how your body works and what you like, you can tell and show your partner, and take ownership of your own pleasure ๐Ÿ‘‰ Children do it as part of normal exploration of their sexuality and should not be shamed or told off for it ๐Ÿ‘‰ Your partner doesnโ€™t care about you less because they masturbate ๐Ÿ‘‰ God has nothing to do with it, so ditch the shame & guilt if you were burdened with that! . . . . . #selfpleasure #masturbationmay #sexeducation #sexed #sexologist #sexolog #pleasure #nytelse #selfcare
Good morning! Wishing you a restful & sexy Sunday! Good morning! Wishing you a restful & sexy Sunday! What are you doing today to show yourself some love and care? I had my morning coffee in the sun โ˜€๏ธโ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿ™Œ ๐Ÿ“ธ -> @sondreamdahl . . . . . #morning #goodmorning #sunday #sundaymorning #views #morningcoffee #selfcaresunday #selflove
Virginity doesnโ€™t exist, itโ€™s a fictional cons Virginity doesnโ€™t exist, itโ€™s a fictional construct, designed to control [female] sexuality, and is upheld by the use of shame and guilt. There are too many problems with this concept to cover in one post but here are a few: โš ๏ธ It attaches guilt & shame to sexuality โš ๏ธ It can damage peopleโ€™s sexual development and mental health for life โš ๏ธ It upholds penis-in-vagina sex as the ultimate sex act Shame and guilt are well known tools in religion to exercise control. They are also among the tools used by those who practise emotional and mental abuse. So letโ€™s call this nonsense out for what it is and put a few things straight: ๐Ÿ‘‰ Premarital sex does not degrade you ๐Ÿ‘‰ Sex is not dirty ๐Ÿ‘‰ Women are not more morally pure for not engaging in sexual activity ๐Ÿ‘‰ Masturbation is normal ๐Ÿ‘‰ Sexual pleasure is healthy ๐Ÿ‘‰ Your worth is not determined by who you have sex with or when ๐Ÿ‘‰ Itโ€™s a myth that you can physically tell if a girl has had penetrative sex ๐Ÿ‘‰ Itโ€™s normal to not bleed when having penetrative sex for the first time ๐Ÿ‘‰ Hymen checks or virginity checks are, in addition to useless: traumatising, humiliating, and a violation of human rights If you suffer problems as a result of this kind of sexual repression, seek help from a professional. You can contact me via link in bio. ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’• . . . . . #myths #myth #fiction #virginity #virgin #repression #oppression #hymen #sexuality #healthysexuality #sexologist #sexolog #socialconstruct #seksualitet #sexualitet #oskuld #jomfru #myt #patriarchy #abuse #control
Donโ€™t dim your light because of other peopleโ€™s Donโ€™t dim your light because of other peopleโ€™s opinions, fears and insecurities! Be yourself, shine like the star that you are, and maybe youโ€™ll help someone else switch their light on too ๐ŸŒŸ ๐Ÿ’ซ ๐Ÿ’ก . . . . . #beyourself #beyou #shine #strongwomen #yourway #noshame #standup #yourlight #yourpath #bethelight #youareyou
How much pleasure can you get from a lipstick size How much pleasure can you get from a lipstick sized bullet vibrator?๐Ÿ’„๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’ƒ Take a look at this episode of Toy Tuesday via link in bio! (And yes I know itโ€™s Wednesday ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ) . . . . . #toysforadults #bullet #bulletvibrator #vibrator #femalepleasure #pleasure #nytelse #sexleketรธy #sexleksaker #sexologist #sexolog #orgasms #wevibe
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