Having written so much about toys I thought I would take a step back this week and talk about creating an atmosphere where we can feel sexy, relaxed and be intimate.

It can be nice to have a dedicated space where you can create an intimate atmosphere free of distractions, or to be able to transform a space with relatively simple means, for example if you travel. This week I give you tips about a couple of simple products that can enhance a space, some things you can use for more pleasure or intimate play with a partner, and also a lubricant tip.

If you don’t have a dedicated space where you can truly relax, think about creating one. For many people the bedroom would be natural place but how do you use it and what’s it like in there? Could you declutter, decorate with something you like, change the colours? Maybe it’s perfect already and then perhaps some of the products I talk about could add some extra spice. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  1. Mark

    Elisabet, all very interesting these reads but this newsletter subscription was originally running related, haha, Are you not to do any more running related? Perhaps you could have separate groups those that want to develop their sex lives and those that have an interest in running?

    1. Elisabet Barnes

      Hi Mark! Timely question ๐Ÿ˜€. I will tell more soon but yes the running blogs will soon move to my other page which is dedicated to running coaching and I will announce that so people can decide what they want to follow. At the moment I am not running much though and there isnโ€™t much to tell as such so itโ€™s taking a back seat for the time being ๐Ÿ˜Š. Iโ€™ll be doing a 3-week trip around Norway soon and there will be some running then and hopefully some nice trails to show.

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