This week I am introducing the vibrating wand from Le Wand. This is a versatile massage wand and after all, vibrating sex toys are very common. A lot of my my followers are runners. This wand is actually also a massager and can be used on sore muscles, just like the name suggests. So, if you want something that is dual purpose, or a sex toy “in disguise” this might be it. Admittedly it’s not cheap, but that’s about the only downside.

This vibrating wand is great for just intimacy, you can for example massage each other and use it for foreplay.

Blended orgasms

If you use the wand with the ripple attachment (see video) it is also fantastic for achieving a “blended orgasm” which is where you have clitoral stimulation combined with vaginal penetration. This is often more powerful than clitoral stimulation alone and for most women easier than “only” vaginal orgasm.

In fact, as a side note I think there is too much pressure out there on women to achieve all sorts of orgasms. Do many of them even exist? We were equipped with the clitoris for a reason and the sole purpose of this organ is to give us pleasure. So, if you have one, use it or learn how to before you worry about anything else. Secondly, using your pelvic floor muscles, which comes more naturally with penetration as you have something to “hug”, will strengthen the intensity of the orgasm and you may feel it from within first, or from the outside first, but the combo is what makes it great. If you are sensitive to clitoral stimulation you might find find even the lowest level of vibration a bit intense. If so, just go light with the touch.

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Big head is an advantage

If you want to use this wand on your partner and they are a woman / vulva owner this wand has a distinct advantage over other toys. That is the size of the head. You do not need to worry about hitting any exact spot. The head provides stimulation of the whole area, with all its nerve endings. It is a less direct stimulation but powerful. You can move the head or you can keep it still and let your partner be in charge of what movement gives them the most pleasure. It can be difficult for women to reach orgasm with their partner during sex for various reasons but if you can find the confidence to use something like this wand together, and accept that there are so many ways to orgasm that don’t involve for example penetration, it could be a way.

Le Wand vibrating wand massager with accessories


So, there you go. Hope that gave you some ideas. There are other brands and other sizes of wands on the market. I can’t comment on them specifically as this is the one I have primarily used. Read more about the product here.

This is an independent article and video which is not sponsored or supported in any way by le WAND. Just my personal thoughts.

As always, feel free to comment below, or if you feel a bit shy but would like to say something you can message anonymously via my contact form.

If you would like to talk to me about anything sex related, see my booking page for consultations and what i can help your with. If you missed the previous Toy Tuesday episodes they are here.

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  • I stumbled onto your toy reviews while searching around on the web I’m interested in getting the le wand for both my wife and I with the g spot attachment and the ring attachment for men. I was wondering if you knew where there are unbiased reviews of both attachments I tried to watch you video and it redirected me to YouTube and they wanted me to give personal information to Google and YouTube in order to watch. I wondered if there was an alternative, anyway, I like your insights an opinions I’m surprised you don’t have more subscribers. Thanks for reading

    • Hi, and thanks for the comment! YouTube has age restricted some of my videos and it means you can only watch them if you are over 18 and signed in to a YouTube account. I do have this particular video available on my instagram account though. It’s under IGTV on @elisabetbarnes on IG. I don’t know of unbiased reviews otherwise, sorry. Many of the toy reviewers are sponsored but I buy almost all my toys myself so all reviews are unbiased except a couple and I mention if I have been sponsored.
      PS. Sorry for the delay in responding! I had a lot of spam so you comment drowned in those. I will fix that now.

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