This week I thought it was time to introduce a vibrator. After all, vibrating toys are very common. I decided to talk about the vibrating massager from “le WAND”. If you missed the previous episodes they are here.
A lot of my my followers are runners. This wand is actually also a massager and can be used on sore muscles, just like the name suggests. So, if you want something that is dual purpose, a sex toy “in disguise”, or just something that you can introduce to your partner without offending them, this could perhaps be it. Admittedly it’s not cheap, but that’s about the only downside.
This one is great for just intimacy, you can for example massage each other and use it for foreplay.
If you use it with the ripple attachment (see video) it is also fantastic for achieving a “blended orgasm” which is where you have clitoral stimulation combined with vaginal penetration. This is more powerful than clitoral stimulation alone and for most women easier than “only” vaginal orgasm.
In fact, as a side note I think there is too much pressure out there on women to achieve all sorts of orgasms. Do many of them even exist? We were equipped with the clitoris for a reason and the sole purpose of this organ is to give us pleasure. So, if you have one, use it or learn how to before you worry about anything else. Secondly, using your pelvic floor muscles, which comes more naturally with penetration as you have something to “hug”, will strengthen the intensity of the orgasm and you may feel it from within first, or from the outside first, but the combo is what makes it great. This wand gives you that in an easy-to-use package. If you are sensitive to clitoral stimulation you might find find even the lowest level of vibration a bit intense. If so, just go light with the touch.
If you want to use this on your partner and they are a woman / vulva owner this wand has a distinct advantage over other toys. That is the size of the head. You do not need to worry about hitting any exact spot. The head provides stimulation of the whole area, with all its nerve endings. It is a less direct stimulation but powerful. You can move the head or you can keep it still and let your partner be in charge of what movement gives them the most pleasure. It can be difficult for women to reach orgasm with their partner during sex for various reasons but if you can find the confidence to use something like this wand together, and accept that there are so many ways to orgasm that don’t involve for example penetration, it could be a way.
So, there you go. Hope that gave you some ideas. There are other brands and other sizes of wands on the market. I can’t comment on them specifically as this is the one I have primarily used.
This is an independent article and video which is not sponsored or supported in any way by le WAND. Just my personal thoughts.
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